The way to a successful mother's day is to know what mom really wants or would enjoy.  Is she looking forward to a family brunch or are you just eager to try the brunch at the latest new brunch spot.  Does she love that new appliance or do you want that new appliance?

Whether you want to make reservations for brunch, pick up food for a family picnic or you just want to get together in the kitchen and cook, the day is about spending time with family (or family-like friends) to appreciate your time together.

Mother's day is a big deal for one reason.  If you do it right, it is a great day to be with family (mothers, grandmothers, stepmothers, substitute mothers, mothers of any kind).  If you do it wrong, it can go terribly wrong.