I have loved to watch People's Court for over 25 years. The other day the new judge, Marilyn Milian, said something that has been ringing in my ears with simple, plain truth, so I thought I'd share it. She was reprimanding a deadbeat parent, and she said: When I look at my two children, I feel as if God had reached into my chest, ripped out a piece of my heart, put it down in front of me and said, "Here. Cherish that. Cultivate that."