WebMD has a great article on rethinking the word "spoiled" and how to know whether you are setting the proper expectations for your child.

"Every parent has probably heard it at one time or another: 'You're going to spoil that child!' Yet what do we really mean by spoiled child? How do you know if you have one, and what can you do to avoid spoiling one if you don't?

WebMD talked with some child development experts, and got their tips on how to spot a spoiled child. But first we learned why we may be spoiled sports for thinking some kids are spoiled....."