People ask us why our kids are so well-behaved, and we usually start by telling them this part of our parenting style (there are many other components, of course, to raising great kids). My wife and I do not punish  more...

You have unexpected guest arriving in an hour...I whip this up or freeze them for quick snacks! Simply mix one can of pumpkin with one box cake mix, such as carrot cake.  Add raisins, walnuts, or chocolate chips if  more...